A Humiliated Husband

The Masochistic fantasies of a husband in a vanilla marriage.

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

52 Humiliating Femdom/Cuckold Ideas

Here is a repost from Dangerously Curious, kinna long  but it would be super hot to have the wife 'accidentally' find it in my files, Enjoy:
Here’s a list of 52 humiliating, and often times, emasculating ideas, roleplays or fantasies my wife and I have either thought up, or picked up from various online sources to keep the “cuckold” fires burning, and to keep each sexual experience kinky and intense for all parties…
There are 3 categories:
- Femdom ideas
- ‘Cuckold fantasy’ role-playing
- Actual cuckold scenario’s

The first two categories are all ideas or fantasies you can try out without a third party involved. The last category…, well, let’s just say that’s where it gets really interesting ;-).

Femdom Ideas
♠     Send hubby out shopping to buy you feminine articles (makeup, panties, bra’s, tampons,…) Have him buy condoms, asking the woman behind the counter whether they have “extra small” condoms in stock.
♠    Make him wear female deodorant and/or perfume.
♠    Feminize his name, or come up with a cute ‘girly’ name to call him, and use it regularly.
♠    When eating out, choose his meals for him, and be the one to give the waiter the order.
♠    Have him paint your toe nails, and then have him paint his own.
♠    Insist that he sit down at all times when using the toilet.
♠    Make him carry your handbag occasionally when in public.
♠    Invite your friends over for a drink and have hubby serve all of you. Tease him while doing so: “be a good little hubby and make us all a drink won’t you? – good boy…”
♠    Make him kneel in front of you regularly, to beg for something (to let him out his chastity cage, to give you oral sex, to massage your feet, to get any kind of sexual favours,…etc).
♠    Have him buy his own lingerie set (bra, panties and leggings) and make him wear it regularly while pleasuring you, while fucking him with a strapon, or while watching you pleasure yourself. Verbally tease him while doing any of the above (“You may be my hubby, but you can hardly call yourself a real man, can you?…I mean, look at you… Don’t you think your woman needs a real man?…etc)
♠    Have him completely shave his legs, and pubic hairs at least monthly. While clean shaven, have him rub his legs and pubic area in with a female body lotion whenever it’s ‘play time’
♠    Keeping the house neat and tidy must become one of hubby’s daily tasks.
♠    Have hubby pick one of your sexy lingerie sets out for you before a night out with your girlfriends. Remark what a shame it would be if no other men were to enjoy the look of it on you that night. Ask him if he agrees, and whether or not he encourages you to flirt openly with other men while out.
Give him a minimum of 10 strokes with a paddle or cane every month, and connect it to things in his behaviour the past month that could be improved upon. Start off immediately with solid strokes that are felt. Light strokes are not taken seriously, at all. Do not be afraid to end off with 3 or 4 extremely hard strokes. He needs to feel clear and unmistakable pain at your hands. Then sooth him by gently rubbing over his ass, while he repeats what parts of his behaviour he intends to better the following month.
♠    For at least one week each month, whenever he cums, have him lick up his own cum…whether it be after masturbating by himself, cumming inside you, or on top of you…forbid the use of any towels or cleaning tissues… This will train him to remain submissive, even after he’s cum, reminding him that you call the shots, even after his orgasm, which goes against his natural male instincts. This must become a routine.
♠    Fuck his ass with a strapon while he masturbates. Order him to cum within ten minutes. Set a timer. If he fails, he doesn’t get to cum that evening. Whether he fails or succeeds, have him follow it up by giving you oral sex.
♠    Have him make a mold of his own penis (search “clone a willy” in Google). Once made, have him give it a long, intricate blowjob. Then fuck his ass with it, before fucking his ass with one of your biggest dildo’s. Ask him whether he feels the difference between his smaller cock, and a real mans cock.
♠    Have him make a mold of his own penis (search “clone a willy” in Google). Once made, have him give it a long, intricate blowjob. Then fuck his ass with it, before fucking his ass with one of your biggest dildo’s. Ask him whether he feels the difference between his smaller cock, and a real mans cock.
'Cuckold fantasy' role-playing
♠    Comment on how good other men look to you, and what exactly you find sexy about them. To add some spice, comment on the things you see that are bigger/better than your hubby’s (I love his big shoulders, he looks like he probably has a huge cock, he looks like he has more money than you, etc…)
♠    Tell hubby that, lately, the men you come across at work or informally, you fantasize of as potential Bulls, which makes you horny. Tell him you can’t wait to have sex with other men.
♠    If hubby has a boss or colleagues he doesn’t get along with, or even friends he becomes competitive around, tease him how you’d love to be fucked by one of those men, and made to feel like their whore. Tell him you’d love for those men to tease him about it after fucking you.
♠    Tell hubby you sometimes fantasize about being impregnated by another man. That a part of you fantasizes about stopping the pill, and letting a Bull breed you at your most fertile.  Tell him what a good father he’d be to another man’s child. Tease him until he agrees with you. Teasing of any kind only becomes mind-blowing if hubby thinks there’s a slight possibility you may be serious, so keep him guessing, and be convincing regardless of what you tease him with!
♠    Keep hubby in chastity for at least two full weeks. Towards the end of the second week, make a point of walking around the house naked, or in sexy lingerie before you go out to work, or for a night out with your girlfriends, but deny hubby any sexual favours. Use this opportunity to receive oral sex, or a foot or back massage. To tease him, let hubby know he’s not permitted to fuck you, but if he’s got the nerve, he’s free to call up another man to come over to fuck you while he watches.
♠    For aspiring hot-wives, who have not yet cuckolded their hubby, buy a condom, open it and throw away the actual condom, keeping only the wrapping. Organize a night out with your girlfriends. When you come home later that evening, suggestively give hubby the ripped open condom wrapping. When he looks up at you in shock, and asks about it, tease him with it, letting him know you let another man have sex with you that night. Keep him guessing for as long as possible about whether you did or didn’t use the condom that evening. Unzip his trousers, and masturbate him slowly while teasing him - “Maybe I really did use the condom tonight…would that make you angry, or does it secretly turn you on?…Is your cock getting this hard because I’m masturbating you, or because I might have been fucked by another man tonight?…etc)
♠    Another beginner idea is to set up a night with a girlfriend, which hubby is aware of, but from that point on, role-play that you’re going off on a date with a rich business man, who, after taking you out for dinner, will be taking you back to his hotel to fuck. While with your girlfriend, send regular role-play text messages letting hubby know how things are going “with the businessman”. (“Strong, handsome looking man…certainly looks like he knows what he wants…and tonight it’s me…”, “Just arrived at his hotel…he’s booking a room right now…so nervous, but also so turned on…hope you’re still sure about all this…” “He just fucked your wife”…etc)
♠    Another role-play idea is to create a cuckold scenario where you fantasize about doing as many things as possible with a Bull that you would never (or not easily do) with hubby. Be creative, and think of all the things you’re sexually ‘uncomfortable’ with, or things hubby hasn’t easily been able to get you to do (blowjob, receiving a facial, an mff or mmf threesome, swallowing a load of cum, receiving anal sex, receiving a golden shower, giving a rim job, receiving a rim job, having an orgasm during intercourse if this generally doesn’t happen with hubby, …etc ), and fantasize out loud about wanting to experience all these things with a Bull while hubby listens or watches.
♠    Tell one of you closer girlfriends about hubby’s sexual kinks and fantasies (cuckold/femdom/strapon/chastity cage, etc), then let hubby know you told her, and share her reaction in detail.
♠    Wear an anklet as often as possible when you go out, with or without hubby, and make sure hubby is aware of it. Seek not only his approval, but make him beg you to wear it (“So you don’t mind that other men might see the anklet and think I’m available sexually? Is that what you want? How badly do you want other men to see me as available? Why don’t you get on your knees and beg me to put it on…”)
♠    Go to a club with hubby, ideally one with pre-dominantly black men, and flirt openly with strangers. Let them rub you up, buy you drinks and come on to you. Agree with hubby up front how far you can go with these men (Kiss on the lips, French kissing, a handjob, a blowjob…) all while hubby watches from a distance.


Sharon said...

Most sissies whether they have someone in their life or not already do most of the things on the list.
I guess for a straight man or one that he thinks he is it would be something for him to do.

Wanda Peters said...

Many of your ideas are in my new book
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